Justin Kirk
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Justin Kirk is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Justin Kirk is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Justin Kirk often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Kirk thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Justin is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Justin Kirk has good psychological insight into others.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Justin Kirk either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Justin Kirk tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Kirk's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Justin Kirk will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
He is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Justin Kirk expects very little. Once he has found his mate, Justin Kirk will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to his partner.
He is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to his surroundings. Justin may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Justin Kirk may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Justin Kirk enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Justin wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Justin is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Justin Kirk feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
His tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Justin Kirk possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Justin may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Justin Kirk may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Justin Kirk to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Kirk may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Justin Kirk will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Justin Kirk is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Justin tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When Justin Kirk loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Venus/Saturn
Moon Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto
Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC
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