Sandra Bernhard
in Relationships

Open and generous, Sandra Bernhard enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Bernhard rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Sandra always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Sandra Bernhard often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Bernhard, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Sandra Bernhard to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Sandra's aspirations and ideals. Sandra Bernhard also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Sandra Bernhard cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Sandra Bernhard has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Sandra takes risks on impulse or whim.

She is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous, and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for herself or others. Subconsciously Sandra Bernhard feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At her worst Bernhard can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in her chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Sandra's emotional indulgence - Bernhard tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.

Sandra Bernhard tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Sandra Bernhard can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Sandra also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Sandra Bernhard craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.

Sandra Bernhard tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Sandra to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Sandra Bernhard may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Sandra Bernhard insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

She is not afraid to take chances and follow her ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Bernhard can be uncompromising at times. Sandra Bernhard also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.

Sandra Bernhard has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, she is warm and friendly to everyone she meets. Bernhard is at peace with the world and want to share her feelings with her friends and acquaintances.

In love relationships, Sandra Bernhard is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Sandra enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Sandra Bernhard responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Sandra Bernhard very happy. Sandra wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Sandra Bernhard may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Bernhard is a natural host or diplomat.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Sandra, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Sandra Bernhard tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Bernhard's life.

Sandra Bernhard experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Sandra Bernhard has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Sandra Bernhard can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 5th house

Moon Quincunx Jupiter

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Mars

Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 10th house

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Square Pluto